If you love a flower, don’t pick it up. Because if you pick it up, it dies and it ceases to be what you love. So if you love a flower, let it be. Love is not about possession. Love is about appreciation. – Osho
This is such a true quote. I feel that in some relationship one member tries to pull at the other in an attempt feel like they have them, when love is really just about being with a person and appreciating who they are and the time spent together. I know I have tried to pull at someone to make them into something that they aren’t, it wasn’t intentional, but I realize it now that it was the wrong thing to do. And not only did I hurt her, I destroyed the relationship.